We checked in with some experts and asked them to take the mystery out of anal sex , and they schooled us on some positions that can help ease you into your first time to actually make it an enjoyable experience. In the traditional cowgirl position, your partner lies down while you mount on top — yeehaw! As the partner on top, you can ease into anal penetration by moving up or down as needed. Remember to go at an easy pace and stay relaxed.
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Ah, butt stuff. According to Dr. Simply put, The Matterhorn is a variant of doggy style, but more upright. To do it, have her lean over a high stack of pillows so that her torso is perpendicular to the bed, and then press up against her from behind and get all up in her cakes. As you can see in the GIF above, The Matterhorn is essentially doggy style because you're giving it to her from behind, but your upper bodies are vertical, which allows her to have more control over your what your penis is doing in her ass. What's more is that with this position, you have unobstructed access to her clitoris , so that you can get her off with your hands up front, and your dick from the back.
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Used to be that enjoying anal sex was taboo for women. If a couple did give anal a test drive, it was seen as a once-in-a-while experience—something a woman indulged in for her partner's sake, not because she actually enjoyed it. Lately, however, it seems that this script has been flipped. An increasing number of hetero couples are adding anal sex to their playbook. Slowly, anal is entering the mainstream.
Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and, with the right partner, can be really, truly intimate especially if it's a first for both of you. Of course, not every woman is going to be into anal I mean, is any sex act a universal turn-on? But many women are here for it, and some can even have full-on anal orgasms.